Don’t be afraid of starting over, of taking your time with someone new. Don’t be afraid of change. Of letting go of the people who keep doing you wrong. Those who keep on giving you stress and who keep on causing depression. Who bring more darkness than light. Who always doubt you. Who always have something bad to say. We don’t need that type of shit in our life.
When we say that we know someone well, how much do we really know about that person? Knowing someone can be a blessing, but it can also be a curse at times.
Relationships that start without any foretelling signs or motives are always right. However, every person will eventually encounter a “defining” moment and these moments will make them reveal their true colors.
It only takes a few seconds to hurt the people you love and it can take years to heal. If only the word “sorry” can heal the pain. If only it can erase all the bad memories. If only it can undo everything.
“For a moment there, I thought he was the one. I thought he was going to be my knight in shining armor but I was wrong. My false beliefs led me to false hopes and momentarily happiness. We weren’t official, yes. But that title was nothing for me, I didn’t care what label we had because he made me feel assured to the point that he would call me in the middle of the night, drunk and telling me that he loves me while I, was stupid to believe him. Continue reading “I Thought You Were The One”
“At times it may seem as though you and your past are one. Sometimes we fail to differentiate between what has happened to us and who we are today. If you have a hard time getting beyond that damaging mindset let me encourage you right now. You are not your past Although you are changed and shaped by past experiences who you were yesterday does not control the person you have the potential to become tomorrow.”
― Sue Augustine, When Your Past Is Hurting Your Present
Past is past, you cannot change it! All you can do is look forward to the future. That’s what they always say BUT how can you look forward when every time you decide for your future, you will always be haunted by memories especially when you are alone and vulnerable? Well, I think that’s the consequences of the spicy, sweet mistakes you’ve done before.
If given a chance to fix half of it, I will always remind myself these things:
1. Consult GOD for everything
2. Listen to your parents
2. Love yourself first
3. Learn how to say NO and;
4. Don’t talk to strangers
By sticking to these rules, I guess, my future is saved!
Hope this helps Ladies and Gents. *wink
Admit it, when you are in a romantic relationship with someone, you sometimes take that person for granted without even knowing it. But it doesn’t mean that you’ll replace him and you’ll start looking for another lover.
We also all know that there is always one person who loves more in a relationship. No two people are alike, so it’s (more likely) impossible to have two people love each other with the same degree of passion.
The song “When i was your Man” by Bruno Mars makes sense and sounds very realistic to me. While we are so busy keeping up with the world and in fulfilling our dreams, we tend to forget even the simplest act of endearment like sending her a message in the morning and letting her know that you think of her.
We are sometimes too dumb to realize that we are losing the one we love without even noticing it. Many people can relate to this song. There are guys who are always playing with girl’s feelings and when they find a girl they really like and feel love towards, they treat her wrong and she ends up going to a guy who may or may not treat her better. But this does not only apply to guys. Girls can treat guy just as bad as guys treat some girls.
Men think that they had already done so much when they are courting girls: taken her out to dinner and romanced her, bought her flowers and took her out dancing. You’ve gone to the movies, met her friends and family. A few years later, the relationship is steady & everything’s fine. The girl is yours and you can stop trying so hard and think that loving her should be enough.
This makes complete sense to a man. But not to a woman, not to us. In our mind, you must continue to court us…forever.. yes forever. This sounds completely exhausting but that’s how love works Dude! It takes too much effort, too much time, and way too much energy to love.
Men are not perfect neither are women. What I just want to say is that love can be cruel sometimes if you don’t know how “give and take” works, you’ll end up broken-hearted.