Admit it, when you are in a romantic relationship with someone, you sometimes take that person for granted without even knowing it. But it doesn’t mean that you’ll replace him and you’ll start looking for another lover.
We also all know that there is always one person who loves more in a relationship. No two people are alike, so it’s (more likely) impossible to have two people love each other with the same degree of passion.
The song “When i was your Man” by Bruno Mars makes sense and sounds very realistic to me. While we are so busy keeping up with the world and in fulfilling our dreams, we tend to forget even the simplest act of endearment like sending her a message in the morning and letting her know that you think of her.
We are sometimes too dumb to realize that we are losing the one we love without even noticing it. Many people can relate to this song. There are guys who are always playing with girl’s feelings and when they find a girl they really like and feel love towards, they treat her wrong and she ends up going to a guy who may or may not treat her better. But this does not only apply to guys. Girls can treat guy just as bad as guys treat some girls.
Men think that they had already done so much when they are courting girls: taken her out to dinner and romanced her, bought her flowers and took her out dancing. You’ve gone to the movies, met her friends and family. A few years later, the relationship is steady & everything’s fine. The girl is yours and you can stop trying so hard and think that loving her should be enough.
This makes complete sense to a man. But not to a woman, not to us. In our mind, you must continue to court us…forever.. yes forever. This sounds completely exhausting but that’s how love works Dude! It takes too much effort, too much time, and way too much energy to love.
Men are not perfect neither are women. What I just want to say is that love can be cruel sometimes if you don’t know how “give and take” works, you’ll end up broken-hearted.